Okay, lovelies! That will be it for tonight since I wrote about a thousand words for asks and I am very sleepy.

Topics I Will Cover Next:

- AFRID and intuitive eating

- Anger management 

- ED Relapses and recovery

- Moving on from romantic feelings for a friend

- Overthinking

- Social interaction and Social scripting

- Dealing with escaping the TERF bubble

- Loss of friendships

- Stress/Anxiety and physical symptoms

The hardest part about therapy for me is consistently showing up. Getting out of bed. Driving to her office. Gathering courage. Using energy. I wanna cancel every time, but I go anyways.

Being a sex-positive personally-sex-repulsed ace is weird cuz like reading about sex? Awesome. Writing about sex? Not much more intolerable than writing about anything else. Sex is good. Sex is normal. Sex is only as important as you let/want it to be. Kinks are natural expressions of sexuality. Sexual purity is a scam. Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of. Sex work is no more exploitative than any other kind of labor. If you touch me I will throw up on you.

Reblogging for pride month

I lost my uncle today. It was very sudden. We knew his health was in decline but we thought we had some time, but today he was unable to breathe and within a short time he was gone.

He was a bright person and a lovely one. I hadn’t seen him in some time and I feel a big ache for the fact that I hadn’t told him how much I love him recently.

Being a young adult sucks, and one of the reasons is that you get too busy and go too far to keep close to those you love.

Please take even just one minute when you remember, to text or email or contact someone you love and just remind them that you love them. You don’t have to do anything else, just remind them that they’re still part of your world.

U can grieve and still live life. U can miss loving someone and love others. You can hold onto the good moments and simultaneously the bad moments. You can take the learning from a person you let go off and use it for the better. You can love someone and they may not be the right person. You can wish someone the best and love them from a distance. You can think fondly of someone and never talk to them again.. mysteries of the world…

I hope you come into the love you deserve. I hope you drink it in full, devour the entire plate. I hope you find peace in the war you fight with yourself. I hope you know you are worth it all.


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